Dear Steve and Shirley, 

I need your advice. 

Nearly four years ago I cheated on my boyfriend once with my ex. I only cheated because every man I have loved has always cheated on me and lied to me about it even though I was always the faithful honest one in the relationship. So basically I got fed up and I had already decided that the next man who did that to me I was going to cheat back. Big mistake. I found out I was pregnant. After I did my revenge cheating and now my son is almost 3 years old my ex is in the military but now he is married to a white girl and they have a newborn baby. I recently contacted my ex and requested that we take a DNA paternity test to find out if he is the father of my son. He refused but when he was overseas for over a year we communicated online regularly. He never told me that he is married now and has a new baby. I asked him about it three times before he finally told me. He lives down south and I live in New York. What should I do. 

I need to know the truth. Is my ex the father of my son? 

Legally what are my options?


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